I agree- bad idea. But I don't think what you guys are afraid would happen. Strongbow might try to force Leetah, I agree (thinking he was doing the right thing, following the Way), but he'd quickly lose his taste for it when she fought back. And Leetah? She'd suddenly learn what pain-sending was, which would emphasize the point even more strongly!
Strongbow's more tender and compassionate than he gets credit for, and he would find that a forced Recognition is even worse than denying it. So he'd run.
It seems to me that things would stay right there, while both of them sickened, until Moonshade held them both at knifepoint to make them listen to her and convinced them to give in. :D
But anyway, all three of them are standing behind me with arms folded, sending daggers. So I'll quit before I get hurt.