I don't object to Kahvi being all she is. I like Kahvi-- most of the time.
My only disagreement was with calling her "the ultimate female," as if she were the ideal of feminine perfection. I don't think there even should be an ideal of feminine perfection, but if there must be, I object to the idea that females reach their ideal when they have as many qualities as possible that are usually attributed to men.
I still think Nightfall represents the balance between "manly" and "womanly" qualities that could best be considered a true ideal-- for both sexes!
But I was referring only to personality traits. As far as physical beauty is concerned, I agree that a lot of different physical types can be pleasing, to different people. But the majority of people do think that females are nicer-looking when a bit softer than Kahvi.