Actually, Night Angel, yours wasn't the only response that made me think I hadn't been clear. There was Lunakat's, too. :)
And you're right-- that is my interpretation of Kahvi. I never meant it as anything else. If she's your ideal of feminine perfection, I have no objection to that. I've given the reasons why she's not mine.
But please, no name calling here, ok? Muriel was giving me a nice compliment-- why ruin it?
If you want to talk about this more in private, please PM me, ok? I'd hate to think I had done anything to offend you. (hugs)