Good point, Foxeye. :) And you know, I would agree with you, except that apparently Kahvi had this odd tendency to favor the females in her tribe. The way I heard it, in the Recognition Summer Special they talked about this quest/hunt ritual that she would only allow the best female warriors to participate in.
My guess is that she had unresolved issues with her father that caused her to pay attention to "the dangly bits." As if she wanted to prove something, somehow. . .
But maybe I'm wrong, and she had some other reason for her apparent discrimination against the males in her tribe. In any case, I think that if she knew all the trouble we humans have had with these issues, I think she'd be all for us doing whatever we needed to do to resolve them.