I'm tempted to agree, blackash, but - even if someone thinks there is a good reason or has the best intensions - the result CAN be as wrong and bad. It highly depends on how "wise" the decision is.
And even then - how highly understandable and forgivable it will be from an outsider's point of view ... it will often make no difference for one who has to suffer from.
That's my very general opinion to your comment ... and not related to the events shown in the collage. There I'd rather go with you.
Anyway - it's an Elfquest quote going well with the pictures ... or other way round :)