I guess that's why I only abandoned my stupid she's-planning-to-force-him notion when I realised it was even more absurd than Cutter agreeing to a chiefmaking session.
Maybe Kahvi just doesn't "get" it. From her point of view - why shouldn't he? Not even though but because his family is gone!
Also, hadn't they spent some fur-time together before? Not sure they went all the way. Or if that means anything in EQ terms.